Ready For A Rendezvoux?

Hello There,

This cooler weather has me feeling rather amorous. I'm here at home all alone fantasizing about a sexy man starting a fire in my fireplace as I open a wonderful bottle of wine. No lights on in my house, just the flickering of candles and the dancing from the flames in the fireplace fill the air. I'm in my favorite Vera Wan short, black nighty with sexy heels. You know, the kind with the fluffy feathers on the revealing toe. You walk up to me as I offer you your glass of wine and gently pull me closer to your body. Your strong hand on my lower back is such a turn-on to me. I wonder if you even know such a slight movement can cause me to become rather wet quite quickly. As we continue exploring each others mouths with our lips and tongues passionately in twined, I feel the buldge in your sexy boxer briefs press against my pussy mound. You take my long stemmed wine glass from my hand with a mysterious grin on your face. I feel our hands wrap around my neck as you use your manly strength to lay me down on my bear skin rug. The feel of the fur on my legs, ass, and back turn me on even more. I smell the combination of the burning wood, your cologne, and mine mingled as I inhale. Such a sweet essence as you begin to run your hands down into my cleavage, pulling them from my nighty so you can massage them, lick them, suck them as your hand wanders down my abs only to find my sheer, silky thong wet with my juices that you have stirred. I can't take it any longer. As much as I'm enjoying your touch, I can no longer refrain from exploring your body. The passion is powerful, the moment so special. I want to give myself to you and take you to new heights, a place your sexual being has never been before. Then slowly bring you back down as we enjoy our journey together......

You're welcome to call me and fill in the details so we can share this special moment. As always I'm home alone waiting to plese and be pleased. You know there is always some treat with me, Bailey, your southern woman who has a raging tiger inside of her waiting to be uncaged.

"More Craiglist Controversy, The Phone Sex Industry, & Phone Sex Kingdom"

Well, here we are in the second week of May and I've come back to air my views once again as a follow-up to the ever so popular craigslist controversy. What can I say? There are two things everyone with a functioning brain stem has and one of them is an opinion. We all know what the other is.

Certainly we have all come from varied backgrounds and are entitled to our own sentiments. Yes, I'm the Phone Sex Operator who wrote, with great conviction, the post that my boss, Nicole Burke posted on the craigslist blog March 9, 2009.

We can sit in our little easy chairs and watch the world go by tossing our two cents in and never acting on it. Or we can be pro-active in our own lives and be shakers and movers. We can do it quietly, behind the scenes, or we can do it up big and grand. So here is round two from this lady. Yes, I said lady and I am one in every sense of the word. I have a job to do and I do it quite well I may add. Am I respectable and a contributing member to this society in which I occupy? Absolutely!

I am currently watching a 30 year marriage unravel from a front row, center seat, because two people went their separate ways by becoming complacent in their commitment to each other. "She" became so wrapped up in spending money, shopping online and by way of TV, not to mention the old fashioned way as well. She turned her back on taking care of "His" needs. In turn, he looked elsewhere because he felt he was nothing more than a paycheck and a visitor in his own home when it came to the intimacy he needed and desired with his wife. "She" doesn't cook for him, clean his home, share any common interests, even at his begging for her to join him. He drags in after very little sleep and bringing in twice as much money as she does, only to cook his own meals, clean the dishes she's left in the sink for a week while he was away working, and clean the bathroom he uses less than 5% of the time she does. That added to no sex!! Hello? "They" are both at fault. So what's your point, Bailey?

COME ON PEOPLE!! Get off your rear ends, be what you've promised you'll be, keep it hot, passionate, give that 100% "he" needs. Then maybe "he" won't need to call "BadBailey" or Phone Sex Kingdom to take care of that fraction of his life he so desperately needs fulfilled. Before you women whine about craigslist, your failed marriages, and our very legal service we offer as phone sex operators, check yourself closely in the mirror. Have you done your part in leading him to wander through the erotic section of craiglslist or other sites? If you fulfill his top five needs I assure you that the vast majority of men will make sure your top five needs are met.

Let me paint this for you very clearly. Shockingly, I learned more from a sermon at a very large Southern Baptist Church about 12 years ago than I learned in any class in college, including Psychology. Yep, that's right! This Phone Sex Operator has an education and a even knows what a church is. This information I'm about to give you came from one of the best books I've ever read. The title is, "His Needs Her Needs - Building The Affair-Proof Marriage", by Willard F. Harley, Jr. Here goes some of the best advice offered for these whining women who are blaming craigslist, dating sites, and phone sex operators for the demise of their marriage. Now be honest with yourself, suck it up, and swallow a much needed pill for your own good.

His Top Five Needs

1) Sexual Fulfillment

2) He Needs Her To Be His Playmate - Recreational Companionship

3) He Needs A Good-Looking Wife - An Attractive Spouse

4) He Needs Peace & Quiet - Domestic Support

5) He Needs Her To Be Proud Of Him - Admiration

Look hard, be selfless, as opposed to selfish, and maybe you'll see the flickering light bulb. If you're wise, you'll screw it in tightly and the light will shine brightly enough for you to take responsibility and become pro-active in your marriage.

Here goes the slicing of the proverbial cake once again. Yes, sex is number one for most men, whether they admit it or not. If we, as women can find our way to catering to that need our number one need for affection will, in turn, be fulfilled. Our cup will overflow!!!

If you share common interests with your man and are his play partner, enjoying your hobbies and adventures together with joy you will keep his interest and his eyes and, more important, his wiener won't wander. He won't need or want to be on his computer looking up www.phonesexkingdom, www.badbailey.com, or www.craigslist.com. FACT!!!

Good-looking is subjective. A guy who looks like Capt. Kangaroo knows his match isn't going to be Pamela Anderson. The point is that he found you attractive when he married you. Now as we age it's up to us to do the best we have with what we were given. Don't get lazy. There's a reason guys have four to six bathroom items and women have 45. Smell good, dress in a manner that is pleasing, use make-up. You can do this cheaply if you are limited. But do it.

Stop hitting him with all the things Johnnie and Cindy did wrong today when he walks in the door after work. Give him 30 minutes to read the paper, sit on the throne, snooze. Let him unwind. Don't sound like Charlie Brown's teacher in the man's ear as he comes into his home. Men, as a general rule, are goal oriented. We are detail oriented. That means his goal is to get home while we may be multi-tasking. It's just the way it is. We are talking about 30 minutes a day here women!!

And finally, you married him for a reason. Lift him up, make sure he knows you are proud of him. Don't rag at him or about him to your friends, co-workers, family. This is YOUR PARTNER!!

I've just given you women, who are pointing fingers, a huge gift. If you take this information to heart and live it you will force me, as a Phone Sex Operator, right out of business. And you know what? That would make me one very happy woman. Yes, I'd miss my job and my clients whom I adore. But I would know that these men have had their needs met by the woman they chose as opposed to a pretty face and a sexy voice. And if you live by these five basic rules your top five needs will be met. He will kiss the quicksand you stand in.

If I've captured your attention it is now up to you to use this computer you are sitting in front of to find out YOUR top five needs. I've already given you one of them. The #1 need you have. Yes, he has a responsibility to you. Trust me when I tell you that whining, threatening to sue craigslist, and pointing the finger will not get you what you want. Unless, of course, what you want is misery. And many of you do want just that. Break the chain, let this be your dawning day, put me out of business, drop the pathetic divorce rate in our country, make me have to go back to a lesser paying job in the mental health field. THAT day will be a changing day in MY life, YOUR life, and YOUR HUSBAND'S life!!!

Basic economics apply here. It's called supply and demand. You don't supply it. I do. The women I work for and with supply it. He demands it, craves it, can't and won't live without it. Change it!!! You hold the key to my chastity belt. Right now you've left the lock opened and your husband has my number. For you women who want to gripe, complain, and do nothing to move your marriage in the direction it's supposed to go, then I say to you as I slice this delicious dessert (your husband), "Let Them Eat Cake", because I've got the ice cream and icing he so desires.

If you're sharp enough to act upon this, and educated enough to learn the accurate history behind the quote, "Let Them Eat Cake" then I tip my hat to you with a wicked chuckle and say, "Bon appétit!!" You just might have a chance at putting me, Phone Sex Kingdom, www.badbailey.com, and all of those incredibly talented women I align myself with, right out of business.

Bailey Addison, PSO

The Life Of An Intelligent Phone Sex Goddess

CRAIGSLIST.COM CONTROVERSY FROM THE VIEW OF THE ADULT ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY AND PHONE SEX OPERATORS

There are so many angles from which to approach the articles that are currently being published regarding the adult entertainment industry and craigslist.com that this writer, who happens to be an avid fan and customer of craigslist, and a phone sex operator, isn't quite sure where to begin.

So with as much passion as a particular public official, Chicago Cook County Sheriff Tom Dart is making his statement about craigslist by suing them, this responsible, equally important citizen is going to express her views in order to balance the scales of justice and make certain the general public has the opportunity to see a less political, more realistic, well-rounded truth of not only craigslist, but other issues surrounding the world in which we live, the adult services offered, and supply and demand.

Let's take this cake one bite at a time by beginning with this issue of prostitution. I will begin by clarifying there is a huge difference between illegal activities and the phone sex operator industry. There is nothing illegal about advertising the service I offer. The company who employs me, Phone Sex Kingdom, has been in business eleven years, is very reputable, and has a zero tolerance for anything illegal. We are arguably the best in the business. Although you won't hear me argue that. I wouldn't associate with a company who misleads, mistreats, or abuses our laws.

That being said let's put some very clear perspective on how many sites Mr. Dart might want to consider suing if he gives much consideration to where the opportunities for prostitution begin.

Why not just start with the window of the internet alone, then go from there? This is being written from first-hand experience. Let's address these dating sites, and remember many of them are endorsed by conservative, professionals, who are well-known. Men and women go on everything from well-meaning free dating sites to the more, in your face sites, that go far beyond basic dating services. People may have long term, dating, or friends listed. Or they may have alternative lifestyles or married but looking.

I, personally have blocked out anything beyond dating or long term because I want someone who is at the same place or looking for something similar to what I'm looking for. But then when you meet this person who has painted himself to be an upstanding, 43 year old gentleman, and he turns out to be a 53 year old party animal looking for a "piece" isn't that misleading? But is it the fault of the site owner that Joe Nice has turned out to be Joe Dirt Bag who wants to know my favorite position (and I don't mean political) before he knows my last name, my dog's name, or what I like to do during the Summer? No! It is our responsibility as consumers to beware.

Now let us take a second bite of the cake and address the broad, truth about what "prostitution" really is in life. Merriam-Webster sums it up as the following: 1) the act or practice of engaging in promiscuous sexual relations especially for money (note: not just for money) 2) the state of being prostituted : debasement

Broken down a little further, which is certainly necessary. Debasement is to lower in status, esteem, quality, or character. Surely a politician with ambition has never or would never lower himself to such a position! Prostitution takes on many forms and it's not always the trading of money for sex between strangers. Quite frankly it's my view that most intimate relationships share in prostitution.

"Honey, if you bring home the bacon you can have sex every other night."

Wife to Husband, it may be unspoken but it holds water, "You didn't take out the trash, thank me for dinner, or buy me that ring I wanted so you're going without this week." Bold? Absolutely! Is there truth in my thoughts?

Many of you would choke on your own tongue before you admit it in Lady's Bible Study, but you know I'm right. And for the men reading this, you're probably thinking I've hit the nail on the head. But I can't help but wonder if you would be brave enough to discuss this with your wife, girlfriend, or teach your college student that these are the cold, hard facts of life!

Another nibble of cake. Yes, as a phone sex operator I do receive calls on a daily basis asking if I offer "in service" or "out service". That is because the consumer has failed to read the large print on my ad that clearly states "I do not escort so don't even ask". I make my money legally and it is up to someone, who seeks me out by the way, to either accept my services or reject them. I work with my brain, not on my back.

For those who may not agree with phone sex services allow me the opportunity to expose the views that many of us who are in this line of business and our clients share. The men who use phonesexkingdom.com range from the legal age of 18 to men in their 70's.

Yes, some are young. But if they are old enough to sign the dotted line at the post office to fight for and die for their country then they are of consenting age. Many of our callers are happily married men who would rather use our phone sex service than to cheat on their wives who have lost interest in sex. Many are lonely, or people who have been hurt. Some have tastes that step outside of what the average American (whomever that may be) considers the norm. But if they're calling us, expressing their most intimate desires, we are prepared, educated, intelligent, women who are meeting their needs. Supply and demand.

You can pass judgment on whether what I do for a living is right or wrong because we all have opinions. But come on people, let's draw a line in the sand of when it's time for politicians to stay out of our lives!

Craigslist.com has provided the information up-front to policing officials. They have not hidden information. This is a profitable business that is following the rules and someone who is seeking higher ground politically wants to cost him his business in a time when our economy is hurting like most of us have never seen in our lifetime.

If he's going to clean house he might want to start sweeping every bar, casino, restaurant, dating web-site, massage parlor, and every other public place where men and women are propositioned on a daily basis.

Don't believe me? Take a trip to your nearest casino on a weekend night, watch those women who are being handed stacks and stacks of chips by out of town business men, then follow them. And while you're monitoring, look for that gold band on his left hand, then check out her empty ring finger.

About 10 years ago I met a very meek, mild-mannered, elementary school teacher who was trying to raise two daughters after her husband died. At that time she confided in me that, in her small town, she was advertising on another very popular website, prostate massages for $100, because she felt desperate about feeding her girls and maintaining the mortgage she was left with. If you think a prostate massage was all those men in big, fine homes, who drove the best of cars was getting, you might want to re-think this situation that was never brought out. I can't help but wonder if it was because at that time that particular site didn't charge to advertise personals.

For the final bite of cake, let me add another personal experience that is as true as the sky is blue. When I first moved to this state and was working in a very advanced position for a well-known financial institution I was approached in a national chain restaurant by a man and woman who were quite a bit older than me. He worked for the Governor of the state in which I reside, who happened to be Republican. She is now an elected Republican official in this very same state. So be careful if you believe there are partisan lines here that are left-wing, because that is not the case at all. Yes, I'm telling you that two, married Republicans are swingers. Do the politicians really want to dance this dance with the adult entertainment industry?

Take care of the individuals who are breaking laws, but there is no need to kill the messenger who has been forthcoming in providing whatever information the police have asked for in breaking up illegal activities. Craigslist.com has played by the rules.

There's always icing on the cake so in closing I will suggest to you, the reader, to look into countries where certain activities are legal and check out some of their statistics, divorce rates, political, police, and incarceration spending. Perhaps it is time for our basic "checks and balances" to be re-checked.

Bailey Addison, PSO

http://bailey.phonesexkingdom.com/

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March 9, 2009